Repeat after me. Bird Box is only a movie. Do not attempt to walk around with blindfolds, or to drive a car with blacked out windows. Doing these things IS DANGEROUS. Kind of on the same danger scale as eating Tide Pods.
January 13
We only have 18 days left until our Panama Cruise. We plan to leave here to drive to Monique and Brian's on Jan 24, so that is less than two weeks.
We have had an interesting start to 2019. We had dinner at Rosie's in the Nugget for Kathy's 45th birthday. It was a fun evening, with lots of talking about the girls schedules and plans. Bailey had gotten a job at PetSmart out at USA Parkway, but left after two days because she couldn't handle the traffic. Even though she started at 5:30 am, it was still very busy on that road. We were kind of glad, because there are always accidents on that stretch of road and we had been worried about her safety.
Last week we worked at the Convention Center as temporary workers for Robert Half. We were hired at $11 per hour, but our actual pay was $12 per hour, so we were given a raise before we even started to work. On the 4th, we went for training and the real work began on Sunday, the 6th. We sat at desks and printed the badges and tickets for concerts, free drinks, etc. for the exhibitors. Several other people on the team weren't as lucky as us, and they had to stand at a kiosk to work. Several of the people we worked with were pleasant, Shannon, Tom, Natalie, and Stephanie were some of them. We had a good time and met so many very interesting people from around the world. Most of them were super nice and grateful for our help. We were able to get lots of stickers for Rommie from different safaris, as well as a super cool cup for Anais and a shirt for Rommie. We even got some free things, geckos that were hand made in Africa, and leather sheathed shot glasses, into which the exhibitors poured tequila for us. We were given several free drink tokens which we used a couple of times. We hope we will be able to work for them again, next year.
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Facebook rant regarding a Nike shoe that came apart on a basketball players foot during a game.
Here is our take on Nikegate. We know nothing about the integrity of Nike or their products so we are basing this post on one incident. Out of billions of shoes that have been sold, some to athletes and some to regular people, one shoe had an epic failure. Is that really a reason for hoards of people to sell their stock? There is talk about suing Nike for damages. What damages? Who, besides Zion Williamson was damaged by this? The only thing that Nike should have to do is compensate Williamson for his accident, give him a new pair of shoes and investigate to find out why the shoe failed, so it won't happen again. Anyone who is now afraid to wear Nikes is free to give them away to a homeless person, who, most likely, will not subject the shoes to the kind of stress that an athlete would. That's it. Unfortunately for Nike, now we can sit back and watch this be blown completely out of proportion. We will continue to wear your shoes, ya know, since we aren't planning to play basketball any time in the forseeable future.
February 18
We went to see Tony and Anais after the cruise, and there was a pretty good snow storm going on in the mountains, so we stayed for a couple of days. We were going to try for today, because I 80 is open with no controls. The bad news- everybody who didn't go up to play in the snow yesterday is going up today. They expect it to take 5 hours for what should be a 2 to 3 hour drive. We're going to try for tomorrow..
Facebook rant
1st rant of the day - a couple taking a cruise were told that they should seek medical care at the nearest health care facility because the wife came down with a life threatening illness that the ship's doctor couldn't treat. They were taken to Mexico City and chose to fly home to New Jersey for treatment, costing them thousands of dollars. They are suing Royal Caribbean and asking for an apology. An apology for what? She could have died without proper treatment. They should be grateful that the doctor tried to treat her and admitted that her illness was beyond his capabilities. As far as the cost, that is why they have Travel Insurance. It's a gamble. Pay a couple of hundred for the insurance and, if you get sick, the cost of treatment and transportation is covered, or take your chances and if you get sick, you pay for treatment and travel. Another case of people being law-suit happy. The moral is, take responsibility for your actions.
February 19
Everything is done that can be done. Doggies hugged and kissed numerous times. Suitcases emptied. Clean clothes and toothbrushes, etc. put away. Laundry started. Three weeks of mail sorted. Hot tea brewing. Market list made. We're ready for our next adventure.
Here's something I didn't have to say for 3 and 1/2 weeks. "Go away. I can go to the bathroom all by myself."
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February 22
From a Facebook post about the need to show proof of citizenship to vote in this country.
Robin Baizel said - I moved so much I had no idea where my birth certificate was. It was a royal pain and cost $$$$ to figure out how to get a copy.
If I was poorer, less educated, more disadvantaged the task would have been overwhelming. I have never had a passport. Because we are technically homeless we can't get real id.
But for white, privileged people like you it seems an easy thing. I am disgusted by some people's inability to imagine that because it is easier for them, it must be that easy for everyone.
Or worse, because people make bad choices (and who dosn't) they don't deserves any of ease of polite society.
Or have the right to vote.
Tony said - Robin Baizel - So it's replies like yours that keep many people from even attempting to see or understand both sides of a situation. I have no idea who you are, whether you are a good person or not, or what my mother is doing being friends with someone who so quickly throws this type of vitriol out, but comments like "white, privileged people like you" pretty much sum up everything I need to know about you. Seriously, you must not know much about my mom if you feel this comment, unprompted, and out of the blue, is necessary. Now, lets see if you can change my mind, or even care to......
I just love what Tony said to Robin, about me.
February 25
February 28
Today's rant. February is Black History Month, a good thing. This story shows a class of black toddlers learning their ABCs using vintage cards depicting only black people. That is every bit as wrong as a class of white toddlers being taught using cards depicting only white people. The teachers talk about diversity. Where is the diversity in this piece? Diversity is defined as showing variety, a mixture, a medley, or assortment. This article is not showing a mixture of people. It is showing black people. Back in the old days, if a classroom or a school had only black children, it would have been called discrimination. Don't these educators see how far they have gone the other way? Let's mix up the kids and the cards to show all kinds of people, so kids will learn that people can interact and cooperate with each other.
We went to the Fraud Fair at Old Town Mall. We weren't supposed to work, but there was a presentation that all the others wanted to attend, so we worked for an hour or so.
March 12
Facebook post in response to the news about several prominent people buying their kids entrance into ivy league colleges.
Kathy Brown, Bryanna Brown should thank you for not being rich. Instead of you buying her way into college, she had to get in and stay in on her own merit. I wonder how the ones who got in under false pretenses, and actually made it all the way through to graduation, are managing to get by in the real world. What happens when they start a demanding job and their employers discover they can't do the work? Are mommy and daddy going to be able to pay off the boss so their precious kiddos can keep their jobs? And this has been going on for several years. What a mess. There aren't enough prisons to hold all the people who have done this.
March 15
I signed up to be a Shipt Shopper, doing marketing and delivery for people. It sounds like fun, and is supposed to pay well in tips.
March 22
Facebook post
There is legislation in the works to ban prostitution completely in Nevada. No more legal brothels. The idea is that it would stop human trafficking and abuse. Right - like Nevada is the only state that has those things. If legal prostitution goes away, all that will do is cause more illegal activity. At least the legal brothels have some regulations and safeguards in place. When we decriminalize sex work, sex workers lives get better. It makes it possible for them to go to police when dealing with unruly clients, rather than being reluctant to do so because it’s illegal. It allows them labor rights that mean if they’re employed, they can expect clean healthy workplaces from their employers. In Nevada, at legal brothels, 84 percent of prostitutes remarked that their jobs felt “safe.” The oldest profession will never go away. Let's not drive it even further underground.
March 15
We also went to the Children's Discovery Museum a couple of weeks ago. That was fun, because we got to wander around with no kids there and play with all the exhibits.
March 29
Well, it is already almost April. There are some encouraging signs of Spring and we are so ready. We have had several rainy and snowy weeks.
I have been applying for jobs all over town. I signed on with Shipt to do personal shopping, and I have earned close to $60 but I would have to take a lot of shops to really add to our finances. I'm signed on with a few new temporary agencies, because I like the idea of not working full time. As long as I can bring in some money, we'll be okay. Mostly, we need to pay off that $5,000 heater before August of 2020.
Today, I got called with a job offer as a receptionist at H&R Block, for which I was interviewed last week. It only pays $9.00 per hour, and it is for two weeks. I took it, mostly to get the experience of starting a new clerical job and learning a new method of doing things. I think that will help with future jobs. We both got another Robert Half assignment in mid March, working at the C&S Grocery show at the Peppermill for one and one-half days. We got paid $12 per hour, but we also got to bring home bags of groceries worth more than $700. The job was easy. We would like to be assigned to that again in the fall.
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We have had two nature walks for AARP, both with small turnouts, but we think they will be more well attended as the days warm up.
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A Funny Story - posted on Facebook
Warning – the following is not true. It is meant to be funny. Please do not inform me that you checked it out on Snopes and found that it is false.
This is a simple idea that could work…
Tel Aviv, Isreal - The Israelis are developing an airport security device that eliminates the privacy concerns that come with full-body scanners. It's an armored booth you step into that will not X-ray you, but will detonate any explosive device you may have on your person.
Isreal sees this as a win-win situation for everyone with no racial profiling. It will also eliminate the costs of long and expensive trials. You’re in the airport terminal and you hear a muffled explosion. Shortly thereafter there is an announcement, “Attention to all standby passengers, El Al is pleased to announce that there is a seat available on Flight 670 to London.”
Shalom
On Wednesday, we took Maxine and Mickie with us to the South Reno Library for a play, which was very good. It was only one act with two players, and they told us that they have free plays at the Reno Little Theater at 1 PM several times a month. We are planning to go to some of those.
Yesterday, Bill had his neck fixed by Dr. Keiner. The surgery went very well, and he has had almost no pain. Today, we had to go in for a follow up and Dr. K. said it looks great.
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Also, last week, Kathy and Rommie had a going away/birthday party for Bailey, who left on Tuesday, March 23 for her Air Force training. The party was fun for them, with lots of friends and neighbors there. Bill made Bailey a cake and I frosted it.
After Bailey's party, we stopped by a reception at an Art Gallery in Reno to see the exhibit of one of the GOG, Kathy Grant. Her work is stunning.
See you in 8.5 weeks, Bailey!
Last week, Aunt Vera, who has been fighting lung cancer for two years, called us to say goodbye, She sounded at peace, but worried for Uncle Norm. We had a nice long talk and lots of laughs, reviewing old memories. She passed away on Wednesday. She was a special lady.
April 3
Bill's brain works in strange ways. I mentioned that I had forgotten to set up the AARP nature walks for June, and I want to get it done, soon, so I can let Lynda Mason Hascheff, our wonderful boss, know. Bill said the way to remember is to think about "Leave It To Beaver" (a 50s TV show for all you young folks)......Wait for it.......................
When Ward takes the car, June walks.
April 9
Bill is healing, but his neck is still very red. We hope that the redness will fade when all the stitches have dissolved.
I have been working at a few new things. Shipt is a shopping service, which is okay, but there is a lot of driving for very little money. I have shopped three times and done pick up and delivery a few times for a total of $84 + and I have only received one tip, from a nice old gentleman who gave me $6.00 for delivering on a rainy night. I got a receptionist job with H&R Block for 11 days because they only need me until tax day. The job isn't hard and I get to read my book a lot between tasks. I greet people, announce them, answer the phone, and retrieve copies for the tax pros. I also schedule appointments and call to confirm them. The job only pays $9 per hour, but, compared with the work I was doing at CIOX for $13, there is absolutely no stress. I have been hired by the Regional Transportation Commission to drive for Ride Rite, a service that picks up elderly and disabled people to deliver them to appointments. It starts at $9.60 per hour during training, but will go up to $13.00 per hour when I start the actual driving. There is more earning potential there, and I will have the flexibility I want. I am planning to work four days a week. My training will begin April 22, so I will have a few days free between jobs.
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April 7
This is a survey sent from the Girls Of Granada, just for fun.
Let's talk about your SENIOR year in High School. 😂😂
Graduating Class of January, 1967! 1. Did you know your current love? No, but we were in the same 6th grade class together. 2. Make of car? None 3. What kind of job? Babysitting and volunteering at a convalescent hospital. 4. What group were you a part of? Two different groups of really good people. 5. Were you popular? Not popular, but I had a few very good friends. 6. Were you in choir? Yes, since grammar school. 7. Ever get suspended from school? No 8. If you could go back,would you? No, but I wish I had been more street smart back then. 9. Still talk to the person that you went to prom with? Didn't go but I still talk and see a few of the friends I'v had since 7th grade. 10. Did you skip school? No 11. Go to all the football games? Most of them. 12. What was your favorite class? Contemporary American Problems. 13. Do you still have your yearbooks? Yes, from jr. High and high school. 14. Did you follow the career path you chose in high school? No 15. Do you have a class ring? No, but I have my junior high pin and my senior sweater. 16. Still close with your BFF? Yes, two of them. 17. Who was your favorite teacher? Mr. McHugh. 18. Did you letter for something? No 19. Did you graduate with a 3.0 or higher? Yes 20. How old were you at graduation? 17 |
April 10
Rant alert! The lesson for today is - PLEASE PAY ATTENTION HERE! If you use any device of any kind, for yourself or your child, follow the directions. Can it be any clearer than that? If you put your baby in a baby seat and the directions say to secure the baby with the safety straps, and you don't do it and the baby gets hurt or dies, that is not the fault of the Fisher-Price. If you choose to not follow the directions, that is on you. You are taking a risk with your baby's life. If you summon an Uber, and a car shows up with an Uber sign on it, and you don't follow the simple rules of asking, "Who are you here to pick up?" and verify the license plate and driver name, and you get kidnapped or killed, that is not the fault of the Uber company. You choose to disregard the rules. Use your brains, people.
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April 16
My job at H & R Block ended, yesterday. So, I have a few free days. I took Mackie to the vet this morning, and, even with the lumps she has, which are probably more cancerous areas, she is in very good health.
Bill will go to see Dr. Keiner tomorrow. His neck has mostly healed, but the zig zag is still pretty red, so I'm glad he will be seen. We had to take the vacuum in for a new belt yesterday, so we hope to be able to pick it up while we're down there.
We were invited to a birthday party for Tony in Elk Grove on May 19, and then to a graduation dinner for Becca on May 31. I am really hoping that my new job will allow me to go to both of those. (The party for Tony was cancelled due to rain here and in Sacramento and snow over the pass)
Kathy and Rommie got mail from Bailey, which made them quite happy. She seems to be doing fine.
Spring is finally really here. Our daffodils have been blooming for almost two weeks and the tulips are just starting to open. We have been doing a little bit of work in the yard and the water was turned on today, so we will be making sure the drip system survived the winter so we can start to water.
April 19
We enjoyed a peaceful walk along the river.
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Our wisteria has bloomed! For the first time since we planted it about 12 years ago, the frost didn't kill the baby blossoms. It is just beautiful.
May 4
We finally tried the Chicken Fried Steak at The Oxbow Cafe and Bistro, after a 2 mile walk from here to and through Oxbow Park. We give it 4 thumbs up for service and food. They have outdoor seating which adds to our enjoyment.
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May 5
We had a wonderful AARP 2 +mile nature walk at Davis Creek Park this morning. Apparently, 8 am was too early because only one of our regular walkers joined us. Thank you, Mary Liveratti for being so loyal. We were happy to welcome two new walkers, Lily and Bill Wang, who said they are planning to join us again. I think I even persuaded them to join AARP so they can attend the other fun events that are offered.
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Bill went to the market with a list. At the top of the list was rosemary so I can try to make the delicious bread that Macaroni Grill serves. He forgot the rosemary, but surprised me with flowers, because he knows I am anxiously waiting for our roses to bloom. He is forgiven.
May 25
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| The yard in the rain |
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May 31
Individual chicken pot pies - perfect
June 1
Shhh. Don't tell Mackie we took Miele to the river while she was being groomed.
I've been driving for Ride Right for about 5 weeks. Mostly I like it. I'm outside a lot, and I love driving. Most of the people are nice, some are very nice and the ones who aren't, I can mostly ignore, knowing they will be getting off the bus soon. Most of the drivers are pretty nice, but I don't really have to see anyone very much, just when I get there and when I leave.
I sometimes go into the break room for lunch, and sometimes I am able to take my break at a parking lot. I came home for lunch, yesterday. The dogs started barking at a man who was standing at the end of our walk, so Bill went out to see what he wanted. It turned out he is a driver, too, for about a year and a half. His name is Beryl Carl, and he came in and talked with us for a few minutes. He lives on Palermo, several houses north of us. He drives for extra money, too.
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In late May, we went to stay with Tony and Anais for one night, so we could go to Becca's graduation dinner at Bucca De Beppo. It was fun to see the whole family. We have never seen Patrick and Andrea's kids before. They are as much fun as Eric, Emily, Haley and Riley. Becca will be going to college in southern California, so Monique and Brian will be able to get their lives back to normal. The food was delicious, so everyone had a very good time. We didn't get back to Tony's until after midnight. I had to work on Sunday, so we left early Saturday morning, so we would have some time at home to get some things done.
On the way home from Tony's we stopped at the Dine and Dash in Colfax for a nice leisurely breakfast.
June 6
We went to Claim Jumper for our 51st Anniversary - just the two of us
We have gone on a couple of AARP walks. Our Bat walk was very well attended, about 35 people, and, luckily, we were able to wow them with a good showing of bats.
The last one was at the Sparks Marina, but only two people showed up, one of them being Laura Cojer, another volunteer.
We enjoyed the early 7 am walk. Then we went to the craft fair in Wingfield Park, before heading over to Emigrant Gap to have dinner with Karen and Rob. They have a new puppy, a retriever, who is adorable, as all puppies are. We played a new game, called Pegs and Jokers, which we enjoyed very much. We would like to buy it, but, even on eBay, it is very expensive. We will keep looking. It was a fun way to spend my day off.
Bailey turned 19 a couple of weeks ago, all alone in Texas. We sent her a card and a letter. She will be home in about a month. This is an envelope I wanted to send her, but she can't receive anything cute in the mail.
Kathy, Rommie and Bryanna took us out to Texas Roadhouse for Father's day dinner. As always, we had a lovely time, and, we actually remembered to take some pictures.
There is a new trail at Lake Tahoe, going from Incline Village to Sand Harbor. One of our upcoming AARP walks is going to be there. It should be a beautiful one.
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That feeling when you get home after being gone for 2 hours, and find that you left the garage door open.
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June 22
Bill's neck has healed very nicely. The scar isn't red so the zig zag is barely noticeable. He has had a plantar's wart on his heel for several months. Dr. Lamerson tried to burn it out, but that didn't do anything. So, Dr. MacKenzie did it for him, and it looks like that worked. It has turned blackish, so we think it is dying and will soon fall out. At least we home that is what is happening.
June 27
My rant for June.
EVERYTHING has some sort of consequence. Some good and some bad. When you see a turn indicator light in the lane next to you on the freeway and you wave at them to move in front of you, you just might be making their drive a little bit easier and safer. If you’re downtown and you smile and say, “good morning” to a man pushing a cart with all his possessions in it, you just might make his day a little brighter. If you see a dog running loose you might stop and see if you can get her to trust you enough to let you put her in your car, so you can take her to a rescue group, thus saving her from being hit by a car, and eventually reuniting her with her family. If you smoke, you might get emphysema or cancer. If you swim in the ocean, you might be bitten by jellyfish or attacked by a shark. If you eat too much, you might be diagnosed with heart disease or other weight related health problems. We make choices every moment of our lives. Try to make smart choices.
There are sometimes choices with mixed consequences – have your kids play a sport, soccer, football, or gymnastics because of the health benefits of physical activity, the personal benefits of teamwork, and the lifelong friendships that can result, BUT, be aware that there are possible long term health consequences, that are still being studied, such as brain disease resulting from head trauma. Go for a walk in the woods to enjoy the beauty of nature and you might encounter a bear. Swim in a lake for fun and exercise and you might get a leg cramp. We can’t and shouldn’t stop doing all things that we love just because of the possibility of now or future consequences. But, we do need to make educated choices, so we are aware of those possibilities.
When something happens, because of a choice you made, you shouldn’t be allowed to blame anyone but yourself. Run across the street against the light and you get hit by a truck, you shouldn’t be able to blame the truck driver, the owner of the truck, or the truck manufacturer. Let your child play in a pool while you are playing a game on your phone (thus, not paying attention to said child,) and he drowns, you can’t blame the pool owner. You drink too much and decide to drive your car, crash into a lake, and drown because you couldn’t make your seatbelt work while drunk, your family shouldn’t be able to sue the car maker. Break into a house to rob it, and get shot by the homeowner, you shouldn’t be able to sue the homeowner for not having a sign warning you that he had a gun and he might shoot you. Sometimes, when you make choices, you have to live (or die) with the consequences.
June 28
Nature walk at Oxbow Park.
June 29
June 28
Nature walk at Oxbow Park.
We didn't see any animals after dark, but we got to see a beautiful sunset over the Truckee River,
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June 29
How much should one tip one's pedicurist?
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A few minutes ago, Bill cleaned the stove after I sauteed some chicken. Him - "Ouch. That burner is still hot." Me - "Be careful. If you get burned, who's going to do the cooking?" Aren't I the epitome of the caring wife? 🙃😊
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July 13
We went to the Chalk Festival at the Atlantis. They had canopies set up covering the artists as they worked, but it was so hot that we gave up after only a few minutes. We enjoyed seeing their art last year. We will try to go again in the evening.
July 20
August 17
Bailey is home from her training for the Air Force.
July 18
Bill's foot seems to have healed. The black spot fell off last week.
We have been swimming three or four times a week in the outside pool, which has been very uncrowded every time we have gone. Bob and Patty join us pretty often. The man who lives across the street from the pool, Steve, got them to let the pool be open on Saturday and Sunday until 8, so we are able to go after dinner on weekends with friends.
Monique and Brian are planning a trip by train to visit us, maybe in September, so they can enjoy the fall colors through the pass. We have made tentative plans to meet them somewhere on July 26 for a walk in the woods. I'm looking for the perfect place between them and us to meet.
I've had mostly good days driving. There are a lot of people on the road who don't have a clue about how to drive safely. I think the dispatchers like me. They are sometimes quite friendly and they thank me for taking extra trips. I also worked on my day off last Thursday because they putting me on standby on Sundays. Bill made cookies for them twice {kind of a bribe to give me good hours.}
Kathy flew to Texas to be with Bailey for the 4th of July. She said she had a wonderful visit. She had to have a tooth pulled last week and was in a lot of pain. I talked to her this morning and she said she is feeling much better. She is helping take care of Aunt Pat's, just like she she did with Aunt Marg. She wants to find an assisted living place for her. I called AARP to see if they can send her some information that will help her find what she needs.
Our yard continues to look beautiful. The roses are on their second wind. Unfortunately, the tomatoes are not doing well at all. I wish I knew how to make them grow better. The clover has grown well but the heat has taken its toll. I upped the watering to three times a day, so the baby clover can get a good hold before the weather changes.
The AARP nature walk next Saturday is going to be at Oxbow, so it will be an easy one. Unfortunately, only five people are signed up to go with us. I wish we could get a larger following. On the other hand, the few people who do go, are usually pretty friendly. We plan to go to the Oxbow Bistro for breakfast after the walk.
I have invited Kyle and Terri over for dinner and swimming several times over the summer, but they have always had plans, because on the weekends, they go on drives to Tahoe, and the bay area. They might come tomorrow for swimming, but not dinner, because Terri is slammed at work and she might have to work late.
July 19
Gender neutral language? Ok, I understand. However, I think it's a bit strange to say "pregnant person" in place of "pregnant woman." Really?
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July 20
If only we could all live by these words.
Be kinder than necessary- Everyone you meet is fighting Some kind of battle. Live simply, Love generously, Care deeply, Speak kindly....... And leave the rest to God! |
July 27
We went to Wingfield Park to walk around the Gay Pride Festival. It was fun to see all the happy people
Bill served homemade Chicken Parmesan tonight. Super yummy.
July 28
We are a little over halfway through summer. I am still driving the bus, but I don't want to do it during the winter. I applied to be a receptionist as well as an assistant team lead for H & R Block next season. I don't know when I will hear about that. I think I will stay at Ride Right through September, and maybe go into October, as long as we don't get early snow and cold days. I think I am a bit burned out, so I haven't been working on my Thursdays off for the last two weeks. The furnace bill is paid, so we are now saving everything I bring home.
Our yard is looking beautiful. The roses have been blooming non-stop since early May. Such a wonderful fragrance. The ones in the backyard are almost 6 feet tall. The stargazer has bloomed three times this season. We're wondering if we will get another bloom after we dead head them
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Our little Miele is having issues, and we are worried that we will lose her soon. We woke up last Saturday to find that she was walking in circles, had rapid eye movements, and was holding her head funny. Bill thought she had suffered a stroke. I looked up vertigo and found that she has Vestibular syndrome, a condition that usually strikes older dogs. We helped her to go outside over the weekend and took her to see Dr. Vittori on Monday afternoon.
By that time she was doing a little bit better, but she hadn't eaten anything since Friday night. Since then, she had improved a little bit more. She is not sleeping as much, and, when she is awake, she is a little bit more alert. She is able to go outside without help. She still won't eat from a dish, so we've been giving her cheese and peanut butter off our fingers, just to get something into her. We bought baby food at the market. So far, she has only had about one teaspoon of that. Mackena wants to lick her ears and we weren't letting her do it, because Miele didn't seem to like it. Now, Miele stays still for it, but I've only let Mackie lick her a couple of times, today.
We have a nature walk at Rancho San Rafael in two days. Two weeks ago, we did the three mile walk from Incline to Sand Harbor. We had 13 people signed up for that, but only one showed up. Susie and Kurt joined us, though, so that was fun. It was very hot, and I think we should have started the walk at 7 am instead of 9 am. If we had, we would have been able to walk back to our starting point. Luckily, there is a shuttle bus at Sand Harbor, that we were able to take back.
Bailey will be coming home next Wednesday night so we will join Kathy and Rommie at the airport to welcome her. We will have dinner at the Outback on Friday with all of them. It will be so good to see her after several months away.
Last Friday, Kathy and I went shopping for her birthday plant and some fabric. She wasn't able to get a bonsai tree, but she found a Wisteria that she liked. She planted it near their mailbox.
Two weeks ago, we went to a Luau party, the same as we did last year. The food was very good, and we had a nice time with Patty and Bob and Laurie and Dave.
Our contribution to the party was tortilla roll ups, ham and chicken. They were very good.
August 5
The following was penned by our son. It's relevance is obvious, so I am sharing it, again. It was originally written in 2018.
Extremeism & Hate ANTHONY GARROW·SUNDAY, AUGUST 5, 2018·3 MINUTES Most of you know where I work and what I do. I don’t typically go too much into that stuff on here, but on occasion I delve into the “dark side” and break my rule. I’m definitely not straying into partisan politics here, just commenting on some troublesome issues surrounding hate and extremism. The Southern Poverty Law Center defines a hate group as an organization that – based on its official statements or principles, the statements of its leaders, or on its activities – has beliefs or practices that attack or malign an entire class of people, typically for their immutable characteristics (commonly race, religion, or sexual orientation). There are people out there, lots of them, who are violent; hate you or others; have some level of organization, want you to think like them- and will tolerate nothing less. You’ve all heard of hate groups such as the KKK and racist Skinheads, but are you aware of more fringe entities and anti-government extremists like the various Christian Identity groups or White/Black Nationalists? How about Sovereign Citizens? Or newer, “up-and-coming” groups like Atomwaffen Division, QAnon, Proud Boys, Patriot Prayer, or any of the various “alt-right” groups? Although these groups don’t always fit nicely under the “hate group” umbrella, each are either steeped in some form of hatred or disruptive activity- or are moving in that direction. Are you familiar with “Antifa” (short for “antifascist”), which is described as a loose collection of groups, networks and individuals who believe in active, aggressive opposition to far right-wing movements? The key words here are “active, aggressive opposition.” Although the left-leaning Antifa is not typically labeled a “hate group” or organized around bigotry- extremism and violence on the far-left remains a concern. These groups’ mutual acceptance of the use of violence as a means toward whatever their espoused goal may be is where they collectively pose their greatest danger. As a result, we are seeing more and more violent clashes around the country. Of primary concern to me is these groups’ active need to recruit new members as their survival depends on new blood. This is where you and your kids become targets. They need you to buy in to their way of thinking. No matter who they support, they all need new members and supporters. Kids are always a primary target due to the fact they are impressionable and many times easily recruited (much like gang-recruitment). Looking deeper into recruitment, in addition to college-aged kids and those in the military, who are especially-coveted demographics, hate groups have traditionally also targeted young, impressionable loners with some form of trauma in their background. If you are like most people, you’ve caught bits and pieces on the news each time one of these groups rears its ugly head, but have you taken a minute and read up on any of them? If not, I definitely recommend you take the opportunity to familiarize yourself with their history, symbology, and tactics. Pay close attention to signs to watch for as far as methods of recruitment of kids. Much like gangs, they will target the loners, the disenfranchised or those who they believe are easy prey. Do your kids suddenly have a new group of friends they are secretive about? A sudden change in style of dress or maybe symbols you’ve never seen before? New access to resources? (Incidentally- again, all signs of gang recruitment as well). If so, please look deeper. If you only take one thing away from this rambling, I hope it’s a new awareness that these groups are all over the country, are extremely dangerous, and are actively recruiting.
We went to Casales Halfway Club for homemade ravioli. I was good but not the best. Still fun to go out together.
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August 17
We went on our Rancho San Rafael nature walk this morning, with three people out of the 13 who had signed up. They were Joan, Ben and Yvonne. They were all quite friendly. We walked almost two miles and it was still cool enough that we enjoyed it, although, near the end, we were starting to warm up a lot.
Next Saturday we are planning to go to the Aloha Festival with our chairs and books in the morning. We hope to stay for a few hours to enjoy the music and hula. That night is Laurie and Dave's anniversary party.
August 23
We celebrated her homecoming at PF Chang.
First day of work for Bailey
August 24
Fun morning with lovely music and dance. — attending 4th Annual Reno Aloha Festival with Patty L Teixeira and Bob Teixeira at Wingfield Park.
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We enjoyed the anniversary party. Dave and Laurie have a lot of nice friends and family. Their daughter, Megan, lives in Sumerset and has a gorgeous house, which reminds us of Scott and Jenn's house. Their kids made a video for them, with lots of family photos over the years.
Dave and Laurie, you have such a wonderful family and so many friends who love you. We enjoyed celebrating your Golden anniversary with them and the two of you. It was a lovely party. — with Laurie Ann Holtz and Megan Schwarzrock.
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August 25
Bill's 70th birthday.
Thank you for the Taste Of Home cookbook, Kathy and Rommie. Dad
August 30
Tonight's dinner is Bill's soon-to-be-famous Huli huli chicken with brown rice, prepared i 12 minutes. Another Taste Of Home Instant Pot recipe.
August 31
    
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September 5
I hurt my knee way back on September 6 of 2018. Bill took me to Northern Nevada Medical Center where I had an Xray. The bill was submitted to Medicare for payment. Seven months later, on April 17, 2019, we received a bill for $48.00 from Sparks Radiology Group. After several phone calls to Michelle, of Sparks Radiology, Bill found out that the original bill was submitted to Medicare for an on-the-job injury. He explained that I was not injured at work and he asked that the bill be submitted again. He also spoke with a representative at Medicare, who told him that all that needs to be done is for Sparks Radiology to uncheck the box stating that it was an on-the-job injury and resubmit the bill to them. He conveyed that message to Michelle.
We received another bill in May. Bill called Sparks Radiology, speaking to Michelle. She assured them that the matter would be taken care of. On June 20, we received a bill from Business and Professional Collection Service, Inc. who had now taken over for Sparks Radiology. On June 21, Bill spoke with Demi, a supervisor with Sparks Radiology. She said she would look into the problem. He did not receive a call from Demi, but another bill was received in July from Sparks Radiology. Bill left several messages for Michelle and Demi, with no return call.
On August 8, 2019, Bill called again, and spoke with Demi. He may have mentioned something about harassment. Demi said she would call Medicare and call him back. She said she would also call the collection agency and put an “Insurance Stop” on the account. She never called back.
Yesterday, we received another bill from the collection agency and the charge, with interest, is now $51.19. Bill just talked to Demi, who said she had taken care of it and we “should” get no more bills.
It really would have been easier to just pay the bill in the first place. We shall see what happens next month.
We received another bill in May. Bill called Sparks Radiology, speaking to Michelle. She assured them that the matter would be taken care of. On June 20, we received a bill from Business and Professional Collection Service, Inc. who had now taken over for Sparks Radiology. On June 21, Bill spoke with Demi, a supervisor with Sparks Radiology. She said she would look into the problem. He did not receive a call from Demi, but another bill was received in July from Sparks Radiology. Bill left several messages for Michelle and Demi, with no return call.
On August 8, 2019, Bill called again, and spoke with Demi. He may have mentioned something about harassment. Demi said she would call Medicare and call him back. She said she would also call the collection agency and put an “Insurance Stop” on the account. She never called back.
Yesterday, we received another bill from the collection agency and the charge, with interest, is now $51.19. Bill just talked to Demi, who said she had taken care of it and we “should” get no more bills.
It really would have been easier to just pay the bill in the first place. We shall see what happens next month.
(Note from the future - They finally got this straightened out - in November. We don't have to pay)
September 6
How many of my friends remember the days when we had to use cloth diapers and which were held on with huge diaper pins? The diapers actually had to be washed and reused. I was lucky enough to have a diaper service, which came twice weekly to take away the bag of disgusting, smelly diapers and bring three dozen fresh diapers for Anthony. Disposable diapers were available but they were bulky, expensive and not leak-proof. We didn't have baby wipes, either. We had lots of washcloths and we used soap and water to clean our babies.
We could buy car seats but they were way different from today's car seats. Infants rode in their infant seat, buckled with the seat belt. When they could sit up, we had a seat that hooked over the front seat back, almost exactly like the one in this photo. Tony, Scott and Kathy all sat in this kind of seat, with the regular lap belt to hold them in because that was all we had.
Playpens were made out of wood, and they were so convenient for putting the babies down so we could do laundry, dishes, etc. Houses were not open concept, so we weren't able to be with our babies all day. That was good, though, because babies learned to entertain themselves in a safe place.
Cribs were wood with side that went up and down. Tony had a pillow, blankets and animals to sleep with and when he was able to climb out at about 15 months, we left the side down so he wouldn't have so far to go to get to the floor.
Tony and Scott slept on bunk beds after Kathy came along. Scott was only 17 months old so he slept on the bottom, but he would join Tony for story time every night.
Kathy's first day of school was on her second birthday, because she wanted so badly to go to school with Scott, and the school wouldn't take kids under two.
The kids loved to go to Travel Town in Griffith Park to explore the trains and then they would ride the ponies.
I made most of Kathy's clothes so she had quite a variety of outfits to wear, even though we didn't have a lot of money. Thrift stores weren't really a thing way back then.
The kids got into squabbles all the time, but they were still the best of friends.
Can you tell that I miss those days? I didn't appreciate them enough.
We could buy car seats but they were way different from today's car seats. Infants rode in their infant seat, buckled with the seat belt. When they could sit up, we had a seat that hooked over the front seat back, almost exactly like the one in this photo. Tony, Scott and Kathy all sat in this kind of seat, with the regular lap belt to hold them in because that was all we had.
Playpens were made out of wood, and they were so convenient for putting the babies down so we could do laundry, dishes, etc. Houses were not open concept, so we weren't able to be with our babies all day. That was good, though, because babies learned to entertain themselves in a safe place.
Cribs were wood with side that went up and down. Tony had a pillow, blankets and animals to sleep with and when he was able to climb out at about 15 months, we left the side down so he wouldn't have so far to go to get to the floor.
Tony and Scott slept on bunk beds after Kathy came along. Scott was only 17 months old so he slept on the bottom, but he would join Tony for story time every night.
Kathy's first day of school was on her second birthday, because she wanted so badly to go to school with Scott, and the school wouldn't take kids under two.
The kids loved to go to Travel Town in Griffith Park to explore the trains and then they would ride the ponies.
I made most of Kathy's clothes so she had quite a variety of outfits to wear, even though we didn't have a lot of money. Thrift stores weren't really a thing way back then.
The kids got into squabbles all the time, but they were still the best of friends.
Can you tell that I miss those days? I didn't appreciate them enough.
Sept 7
This is the third of my three days off, so tomorrow I have to work. I enjoy so much getting up in the morning and being able to sit with Bill and watch the morning shows, play on my phone and read. Not being able to do those things is the worst part of working. We had a man come over on Thursday to measure our bedroom window, and we are waiting for an estimate on a new window. We need to get the trim on the house painted, and we need to have the carpets cleaned. Those are the things that will be taking some of the money I've been earning. After that, we hope to just leave it in the bank, and I hope to quit this job by the end of October. I think I will be hired by H and R Block again, so I will make some money in the Spring.
Miele is almost completely back to her old self. She has been eating from her bowl and walking fine. Her head is no longer tilted. She can jump up on the couch and sometimes she falls on us when she does that, but the improvement is wonderful. We noticed, today, that Mackie seems to be loosing her hearing a little bit. We came home from visiting Sally at her rehab hospital and Mackie didn't wake up until I touched her. This is the oldest any of our dogs have ever gotten.
I invited Dave and Laurie over to swim when they get back from Hawai'i. Patty is overjoyed.
Bill worked at the Senior Fest last Tuesday with AARP, but I couldn't do it this year because of work.
I called Sherri to find out how her eye surgery went. She said it was good and she is recovered. She is going to call me next week to make plans to get together for dinner.
Tony and Anais came over last Sunday for the Rib Cookoff. They picked Bill up and took him with them. I didn't get to see them because of work.
September 11
Sept 14
Bill worked at the new Veteran's Home on Tuesday for the National Day of Service. He made friends with a gentleman named Sheldon, who is 95. He enjoyed the time they spent together. Sheldon talked about his days of service in WWII and other things about the olden days.
We got a nice photo of Uncle Joe, who was such a wonderful host whenever we visited Niagara Falls.
We On Friday night, we had Laurie and Dave, and Patty and Bob over for dinner. It was supposed to be at the pool, but when Bill and I got there at 4:15, to get everything set up for our guest's arrival, we found the pool half empty and the gate locked. We went to Alex, because there had been a note on the doors, saying that the pool would be open through Sept 13. She apologized and said that they had decided to close it early. We let her know we were upset. She just apologized, again. That didn't make us feel any better. We took the food home, set the table, and let everyone know what had happened. They got here between 5 and 5:30, and we had a very good time, talking about Dave and Laurie's trip to Hawai'i. After dinner, we had a nice swim but it was indoors. We are still mad about this.
This morning, we had our nature walk at Crystal Peak Park. Loren and MaryJo were there, again, and Mary L. was able to make it. We had a fun time, showing them what is left of the historic buildings in the meadow.
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| Loren, MaryJo and Mary |
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| Thistle |
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| Fireplace left over from the patio area of the resort |
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| Skull found in the meadow |
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| Bumblebee on a thistle |
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| Part of the old pool |
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| Inside an unknown building |
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| Part of the pool |
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| Verdi Glen Resort Sign |
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| Fish Pond |
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| Our group taken by Mary |
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| Lumber mill in 1890 |
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| Resort area |
September 16
Bill has been baking cookies for Christmas. He freezes them so we can accumulate a lot. But, of course, we have to sample each of them.
September 18
Polynesian meatballs on noodles with broccoli - another winner
September 23
The Alzheimer's Walk at the marina was very crowded. We worked for about four hours. Bob and Patty came with us, because Bob has decided he wants to volunteer with us. It was a busy time, but we also had lots of time to walk around to see the other booths.
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| Maria and Michael Moore were there with us |
September 27
Facebook rant
I’m going to talk about bathrooms. Specifically, bathrooms on airplanes. Let’s face it – sometimes, bathrooms are a necessity. Depending on the size of the plane, there are usually from two to eight bathrooms available. First class has it’s own bathrooms, but, honesty, from what we’ve seen, when we’ve been lucky enough to upgrade to first class, they are exactly the same as the coach bathrooms. Sometimes they have a flower in a vase on the sink, but, otherwise, no difference. They are not roomier. They don’t have windows that open to let in fresh air. The toilets aren’t made of gold. We understand wanting to keep the lower class passengers from walking through first class to get to the bathrooms. Ewww!! But, when there is a line in coach, and one REALLY has to use the bathroom right away, there is no legitimate reason to keep that person from using a first class one. First class will not be diminished by allowing an occasional commoner to walk through. The um…aromas left behind are the same no matter what class is using the bathroom.
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September 28
We were supposed to have our nature walk at Mexican Ditch in Carson City this morning, but, the weather report was showing a 70% chance of rain, today, so we canceled it. We went downtown to walk through Street Vibrations for a little while and it didn't start to rain until about 2:30. It is pouring and windy, with snow falling in the north valleys, so we made the right choice.
Bailey bought a car last week, We don't know what it is, but it is really cute. We're happy for her.
Bryanna is going to be in Maui for her 21st birthday, so we bought her two outfits and a beach bag to take with her.
I gave Geo my resignation and he asked me if I would like to go to reservations. I said I will try it. My last day of driving will be next Wednesday, but I don't know if I have the new job, or not.
October 3
I was going to work through Oct 2, but I got a killer headache on Sept 29 and it was so bad that I couldn't go in to work on my last two days. I still don't know if I have the reservation job.
October 5
Bill experimented with won ton shells, and it was a success. He made won ton tacoes with cream cheese filling.
October 5
Bill experimented with won ton shells, and it was a success. He made won ton tacoes with cream cheese filling.
October 10
It is official. I am no longer a bus driver. I had to go in for another interview on Oct 4. While I was talking to Petra, Tony walked in and asked me if I could work the next day. So, it was the first time I worked on a Saturday. The day was great. Very little traffic and I had an easy group of clients. I told Remmy that I would work on Sunday, too. Sunday was also an easy day. and at the end of the day, Tara said that she thought I should go ahead and work on Monday, so that I wouldn't be a no call, no show. She said she would build a route for me with no wheelchairs. On Monday, and Wednesday, I had a van, although I did have several wheelchairs my last day, for which Tara apologized. She made up for it by changing my split day to a 9.5 hour day, and the day was good, except for the last two hours which had totally terrible traffic. It took three hours to pick up and deliver three ladies.
I got a call from Petra a few minutes ago, saying that I am hired as a reservationist, so, I will see how that works out. I have the next week off and I will start my training on Oct21.
I played Bunco for Patty's group last night. Not too bad, but not wonderful. Mary's rules are strange.
We were going to go to a Scavenger Hunt on Friday night with AARP, but it has been postponed, again, because Jacque quit and the other staff don't know how to work the Scavenger Hunt app. Justin said they are going to reschedule it. We had asked Bob and Patty, and Laurie and Dave to join us, so we will all go swimming, instead.
Our good friend, Mickie, had his gall bladder removed on Monday, rather suddenly, and he is home and doing fine. Maxine was, understandably, very worried, because he is 87, We had her come over for dinner on Monday between hospital visits.
October 12
We had John, Sally and Kristin and Kurt and Susie over for our pasta casserole on Saturday night. It is always so much fun to see them.We made the most delicious German Chocolate pie for dessert. That recipe will go into our favorites file.
October 18
Veteran's Guest Home fund raiser at the Atlantis. Luncheon and a very nice fashion show with several Veteran and active duty service women as the models.
Must be nap time.
October 25
OMG! We just got a call from Microsoft. They are going out of business, and they want to send us a refund on our service agreement on our computer (which we don't even remember buying - you know how easily old people forget things.) Anyway, all we had to do was give them our social security numbers and routing information for our banks. They will transfer the funds to us in as few as five days. Isn't technology wonderful?There have been too many devastating fires in California over the last several years. This was posted by Joline after the latest one hit their neighborhood, and they had to evacuate for a few days.
Posted by Joline after a huge fire that caused them to evacuate.
Thank God and the firefighters, we are home and all is well. We are sending a big THANK YOU to our wonderful supportive family and friends. 💕
October 26
We went to dinner with The Browns on Monday night for Bryanna's 21st birthday because she will be in Maui on that day. The food, as always, was wonderful, and Bry seemed to really like the outfits and the beach bag we got for her.
We got to see Bailey's new car. It is really a nice one. 
I started training for my new job as a Reservationist. I am sure I will love the actual work, but I'm not sure I want to deal with the office politics and management. For one thing, the part-time positions will be up for bids next week, and none of them have two days off in a row. Only two of the shifts include a weekend day. The hours are not wonderful. I didn't want to have to work at 6 in the morning during the winter. I am the lowest in seniority, so I will get the shift that is left over. We shall see what happens.
We have been doing a few things around the house, besides the usual yard clean up that comes with Fall. We got the trim painted.
The painters pointed out that we had a bee hive in the peak of our house. After several phone calls, we got a bee man to come out to see about removing them. He said that if it had been bees, it would have been very costly to remove them, because some of the roof and siding would have been compromised, but it turned out to be wasps, so Clark came out last Monday and took care of it. Then we got a new bedroom window. It looks just like the old one, but it is double paned and it doesn't have any leaks.
The sound from Vista is non-existent so it was well worth $800 to have a functional window. Today, Kathy's friend, Jesse, is trimming our big trees. He did such a good hob on Mickie and Maxine's trees that we knew he would do a good job for us. Dale and Linda, on the other side of us, are having him do their trees, too.
Bill wants to get a new set of pans that are stackable. They will be on sale at Costco next week, so we are trying to sell our pans on Facebook and eBay. We have had them for 11 years and we paid over $2,000 for them. They are in perfect condition except for the normal wear and tear.
October 31
AARP night at the Atmospherium. We all had a good time having Port Of Subs wraps, vegies and fruit. Then we saw a very interesting film about the history of space exploration and what might happen in the future.
AARP night at the Atmospherium. We all had a good time having Port Of Subs wraps, vegies and fruit. Then we saw a very interesting film about the history of space exploration and what might happen in the future.
Nov 1
Bill made his now famous Polynesian meatballs again on Monday and they are my new favorite.
It has been a busy week Bill and Bob took some flyers over to Congressman Amodei's office on Tuesday, and then Bob bought him lunch at Woody's. Last night we went to the Atmospherium for an AARP event, but we went early so we could have dinner at The Wal. Bill had a pizza and I got fish with sweet potato fries. It was pretty good. The event was well attended and we enjoyed the film. We have been going there since we first moved to Sparks, but we haven't gone there very often in the last 20 years, since we had no kids to take with us.
My training is almost finished so I will be on my own soon. I like the work, but the office politics might do me in.
We bought Bill's his new set of pans at Costco two days ago. He is quite happy with them, We still haven't sold our old set, but we are hopeful that we will be able to.
Tonight is swimming, and I asked Dave and Laurie to join us again. They enjoy it so much, and they really have turned out to be a nice addition to our group.
November 2
When you're in a pizza mood and you don't feel like driving to get one.
November 4
Stuffed shells for dinner
November 9
I graduated from my training and was on my own for an hour on Wednesday and four hours on Friday. Tomorrow I will start my new schedule. I am off Tuesday and Saturday which will be hard to get used to. I had three days off in a row when I was driving. I like the job, so that is a relief. I told the people at H & R Block that I won't be taking the job as Assistant Team Lead, after all.
Bill had his rotator cuff surgery on Thursday and he is recovering nicely, with very little pain. When we got home from the hospital on Thursday evening, I heated him a can of soup and I had an egg sandwich. Last night we had the last of the homemade pizza. 0 He only needed one pain pill during the night last night. He had a shower this morning, so we got to see what it looks like.
I did some housework this morning, and found that I like not doing it. I vacuumed the house and washed the floors. Then I racked and mulched the backyard. Wow! That is exercise.
November 10
Bill is three days post surgery, so I thought I would be doing the cooking, etc. for a while. This morning, I asked what he wanted for dinner and he said peanut butter sandwich sounds good. I thought I would heat soup to have with it. So...while I was at work he read the latest AARP magazine and found a recipe. I can't leave him alone for a few hours without him doing something he is not supposed to do. These are chicken empanadas and they were delicious. |
November 16
I got through my first week of being a reservationist. I like the work. Now if I can only stop forgetting how to do things, I will be fine. The problem is that I learned a couple of things in training but I haven't had to do them, so I have forgotten how to do them. The others, Michelle, Kim, Jill, Soledad, Carrie, Tamara and Theresa are nice enough and willing to lend a hand when I need help, but they are not always available, like when they are on a call.
Bill is doing well. He tried to take a shower on Tuesday, but his arm hurt really badly when we took off the sling, so I just helped him to get his face and head clean. He went to a luncheon with Bob on Thursday, which was good for him to be able to get out. On Friday, I made tuna sandwiches before I went to work. After work, we went swimming with the Tiexeras and the Holtzes and when we got home, all I had to do was put lettuce on the sandwiches and put some potato chips in a bowl. Bill talked to Tony about his upcoming trips. His plan of Anais being able to travel with just carry on luggage is not going to work out. I would have a hard time doing that, too.
The Toscana Craft Fair was this morning. Kristin joined me with some of her beautiful paintings. We were very disappointed by the crowd. It was almost all Toscana people, none of whom wanted to buy anything. I did sell one tile but I bought three geraniums, so it was a wash. Kristin didn't sell anything. At the end of the day, she gave me one of her paintings, that was priced at $40.00, for $5.00/ It was my favorite. We found out that the reason there were so few people there was that it wasn't open to the public so there was no advertisement and no signs. Something was said about there being food for sale, so the health department wouldn't allow outsiders in, but I think that is c^^p.
November 21
I like my job, but I get so frustrated when I can't do something and usually it happens when my coworkers are on calls. Also I have to put up with Petra who I find rather condescending. Yesterday, she took me to one of the conference rooms and asked me what the policy is on electronic devices. When I answered, she said that she had seen me with my Ipad at my desk. I told her that it is a Kindle and that I had been reading it several times over the last week when she came into the room and she had not said anything about it. It is not connected to the Internet and I only use it to read. She said she would find out if a Kindle is acceptable. I understand why she brought it up, but the way she does things is just so strange. (Note from the future - no more Kindle) Even though all the other women use their phone when they aren't on calls, all day, mine stays in my purse. Oh well, maybe someday, they will change that rule.)
Tonight we are working at Movies For Grownups so I have the day off. When I was in training, I told Petra that I needed to be off work by 5 today. She said I could work 9 to 2 today. When I mentioned it on Monday, she said that I couldn't change my hours like that. I told her that she had agreed and she said that I could have the time off, but I couldn't work different hours. So, I have learned that I should have kept the copy of the hours she printed out for me, so I could have shown her what she agreed to. Oh well, I don't mind being off because I would rather not have to work in the first place.
I called Aunt Laura a few days ago. She had the usually health complaints but is doing well. She talks about needing to clean out her house, but she still talks as if Uncle Denny is there and will disapprove of anything she does. Tony has been trying for such a long time to get her to through most of the junk away, but he doesn't have a lot of success with that.
Tony posted this yesterday
Some of you know the significance of this day for me, but if not, I thought I’d pass this on. 31 years ago today, December 7, 1988, I went into the Air Force as a Security Policeman. This would be the beginning of a career in law-enforcement which I had no idea would last this long.
I don’t think at that time I really grasped the global significance of the date.
Now, as I sit in my quiet, almost-empty office on a rainy, gloomy pre-dawn Saturday morning -for one of the last times ever- trying to wrap-up a career (well, at least THIS portion of it), I think about how that has changed over the years.
Over the last 31 years I’ve come to understand and truly appreciate the sacrifices made by our military and law enforcement and have developed a deep admiration of those who selflessly place themselves between those who need protecting, and those who would do them harm.
Many of you reading this have placed yourselves at the front of the pack to meet the darkness head-on, so others didn’t have to. Several of you still do.
Many of you bear the scars of this, some visible and some not visible.
For this I say thank you. You and your families sacrifices are appreciated.
It is so hard to believe that he is retiring in just a couple of weeks, and he and Anais will be off on their adventures. They have some trips planned to Israel, Jordan, and Poland. Amazing.
Jesus Manuel Huertas I want to personally thank you Anthony Garrow for all the support you provided to my ministry, your trust in me as a correctional professional and your unquestionable friendship. Although I’m happy that you’re moving on to retirement, the BOP is loosing all your years of invaluable and irreplaceable experience. Because of your unselfish service not only our prisons have been safer but society at large has been safer. Thank you my friend, I wish all the best, come and visit me in Kentucky. Congratulations.
Donna Mott I remember that guy well. The Bureau becomes a little less today when they lose you. Retire knowing you made a difference in the agency and in so many staff who owe their careers and futures to you and your leadership and guidance.
Joey Mott Congratulations Tony, retirement is a wonderful thing and I know you will enjoy it to the fullest. You are a great friend and one of the few I trusted with my life, you were always there and had my back when things got rough. You are one of my greatest friends ever and I hope you have the greatest time of your life ahead to enjoy. See ya around brother.
Bryanna got home from Maui a little over a week ago. She had a wonderful time. I hope she will have some photos of her trip. Here is one of her on the beach.
And this is her in the beach skirt we gave her.
Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving was at Kathy and Rommie's house. Rommie picked Bill up at the house to take him over there, because I had to work that day. It snowed quite a lot that afternoon, so it took me almost 45 minutes to get to their house after work, a drive of about 20 minutes, normally.
The dinner was perfect, and we enjoyed our time there, but we couldn't stay long, because I was worried about driving home in the snow and ice. As it turned out, the snow had stopped, and the roads weren't too bad.
December 7
Bill is so sweet! He just let me know he set my alarm to wake me at 5 a.m. tomorrow. Problem is that I work at 9 on Sundays. I have to be there at 6 on Mondays. It's the thought that counts, right?
December 11
Facebook post
I don't usually copy and paste the chain posts on Facebook, but this message is personal to me so I am passing it on in honor of our family and friends who are doing their best to thrive despite their challenges with these disorders. Kathy Brown, Terri Richter Dill, Kristen Spinola and anyone else who are fighting for their health, I love you. 💗
It takes an average of 3 years and 5 doctors for a person to get a proper diagnosis of an autoimmune disease.
I just wish more people understood what an autoimmune disease is. It is not a cold or the flu, you will never get better, and even a nap will not help. Just eating a salad and hitting the gym won’t slim your face or get the pounds off. Sleeping 10 hours doesn’t leave you well rested, ever.
Last minute changes in plans because that “just got ran over” feeling never makes appointments, just walks in whenever you aren’t ready.
Achy joints and bones, dry skin, breaking hair, mood swings and depression are just the tip of the iceberg.
You are also prone to having multiple autoimmune diseases.
I am watching the ones who will take time to read this entire post and react.
Please, in honor of someone who is fighting Achalasia, Sjogrens, Scleroderma, Hashimoto Disease, Ankylosing Spondylitis, Fibromyalgia, Lupus, Sarcoidosis, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Hepatitis, Raynauld's Syndrome, Diabetes, Celiac, Crohn’s, Ulcerative Colitis, Pemphigus, SPS, MS, PBC, Psoriatic Arthritis or CIDP, copy and paste to your page and reply "DONE" on mine. ❤️
December 12
So, I made a scheduling mistake last week, on my second week as a reservationist, which caused a bus to go to a house to pick up a client at 7:20 in the morning, instead of 7:20 pm. She didn't miss her ride, as they just sent another driver for the correct pick-up time, later. Unfortunately, the affected client is an RTC board member and she complained, so,yesterday, I was called in to talk to my manager, along with my union representative, to talk about how they can help me to be better at my job. Then I was suspended for one day as a "corrective" action. That will teach me not to make mistakes. There will be four people doing the job of five this afternoon. That seems like more of a punishment for them, not me. Bill and I will be going to the river this afternoon, to take a walk, and we might take in a movie. This is me being sad about not having to go to work today.
And now for the REST of the story.
Here's an interesting twist to my story from this morning. We were out shopping, and visiting our friend, Sally, when I got a call from my manager. Seems she made a little mistake. She should have given me a written warning instead of suspending me for the day. She asked if I could go in to work, after all. I told her I would be happy to go in, but I couldn't get there until 3, so I will only be able to work three hours. So, it will be interesting to see if I am paid for the two hours I was not there. I will update when I find out. Heigh ho, heigh ho, it's off to work I go.
And, I was paid for the whole day.
December 20
Each year, our children ask us the same question. After thinking about it, we decided we'd give them our real answer. What do we want for Christmas? We want you. We want you to keep coming around. We want you to bring your kids around. We want you to ask us questions, ask our advice, tell us your problems, ask for our opinion and ask for our help. We want you to come over and rant about your problems, rant about life, whatever. Tell us about your job, your worries, your spouse, your kids, your fur babies. We want you to continue sharing your life with us. Come over and laugh with us, or laugh at us. We don't care. Hearing you laugh is music to us. We spent the better part of our lives raising you the best way we knew how, and we're not bragging, but we did a pretty darn good job. Now, give us time to sit back and admire our work. We're pretty proud of it. Raid our refrigerator, help yourself. We really don't mind. In fact, we wouldn't want it any other way. We want you to spend your money making a better life for you and your family. We have the things we need. We want to see you happy and healthy. When you ask us what we want for Christmas, we say "nothing" because you've already been giving us our gift all year. We just want you!
December 21
Susie stopped over to bring a present for us. Cute, warm Christmas socks.
December 30
Tony and Anais came over for a couple of days the week before Christmas. They took us to Pinnochio's for dinner. Always fun getting together with them and Kathy and Rommie.
Patty and Bob had their annual Christmas Eve party. Good food and conversation.
We had a good time at Kathy and Rommie's house on Christmas morning. They had us come over at 7 am because I had to be at work at 9 (until 6, long day.) Rommie's brother, Rick was there and one of Bry's friends was, too. Breakfast was delicious, as always. The best part was just being there with them and being able to talk and laugh.
Another year draws to a close. I have been working at RideRight since mid April, and I think I will be able to continue for a while. We like being able to buy things that are not really in the budget, and to be able to save money. We both hope to be able to work at the polls next year, especially early voting. We are having a small get together on New Years Day evening, because nobody our age really likes to go out on New Year's Eve.
December 31
This is a post from Tony's friend Jen, a fellow law enforcement officer. She said it well.
Some major Paraphrasing from my November post but so important today. Happy Retirement to my number 1! Happy for you even if you are retiring and abandoning me. Yes, it’s all about the DQ!!!
If you had told me 17 years ago, this asshat would be my best friend I would have laughed. He probably would have killed you. He was super mean and even scarier. He was my boss too! He has the nicest wife ever but I was soooo TERRIFIED of him when I met him. Fast forward a bit and he became a mentor and a kinda sorta friend but neither of us would admit the friend part. About five years ago, he became a real friend and an amazing mentor. Then about 18 months ago when I was trying to figure out the meaning of my professional life and what to do without my childhood best friend - this crusty turd stepped up as my best friend. He denies it. But he did. He’s literally the first one I call when I’m being overly dramatic and convinced my life is yet coming to end. Again. He’s never scared to tell me to shut it or that I’m an idiot. But, he also reminds me I’m better than some of the bs I’ve been handed. He remembers to tell Daxen happy birthday. He texts with Jake.
He keeps me in check both personally and professionally. All my true mentors are slowly retiring and now this one too. I’m happy for him and his family for the next chapter in his life. I’ll still call at random times with the DQ crisis of the moment so he knows he is loved. He changed my life for the better and his reward for this is more phone calls from me.
Here’s the important part - Most of all I just hope he truly understands he shaped and molded an entire generation of Bureau employees. I’m pretty sure Pollock didn’t implode because him and a few others held it together when we first opened. Love him or hate him, everyone will admit Lt. Garrow is the one that made good COs at Pollock.
Thank you for everything! I love you!
Now that I’m crying. Shocker. Here’s what I’m most proud of all he taught me and I share with anyone who will listen.
Never Forget April 3, 1997 Scott J. Williams thanks for teaching all of us what’s important in middle of nowhere Louisiana. I’ve brought that with me on all of my moves. Including the flyover state of Indiana. Kristy Williams
Finally, I also got the best sister out of this deal too. She is the sister I’ve always wanted and never had 😘. Love you Kathy Brown and Momma Billie Kennedy Garrow! Oh and let me not forget Erik Hermanson!
Shane Robinson Congrats Tony. I remember getting the wrong prescription after getting a tooth pulled and was so stoned I couldn't drive to work. Was the 1st of the very few times I ever called in. I made Lt Garrow promise not to fire me. 😂
She's spot on, You being a hardass probably kept most of us safe back then. Wish there were more like you to mold some of these new kids we are getting now. They'd probably go home crying everyday.
She's spot on, You being a hardass probably kept most of us safe back then. Wish there were more like you to mold some of these new kids we are getting now. They'd probably go home crying everyday.
